Dealing With A Teenage Drinking Problem
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Dealing With A Teenage Drinking Problem
Christopher Knight
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Every parents nightmare is having to escort their teenager to a private rehab clinics for alcohol treatment or detoxification. Sadly, in the modern age alcohol is becoming so much a part of young peoples lives. It is often only when it is too late that parents begin to see the harm that it is being done. Often parents want to sit down with their child and warn them about the problems of drinking, or the issues around using it for the wrong reasons, but they refrain from doing so for fear of appearing “fuddy-duddy” or patronising or for the fear they may drive their children away even more.
Support rather than threaten
It is a fact that parents know too well that a mother and father who is preaching, threatening and rebuking all the time is just going to lead to ill feeling, deaf ears and arguments. When you are aware there may be a problem with your Childs drinking you need to approach as someone who wants to “support” rather than someone who is going to threaten and demand change.
That does not mean you should not be firm however. As with anyone who is abusing alcohol, they need to know there are real consequences to their actions. That if their behaviour continues the people around them and the people they love will behave in a way to deal with it. They need to learn to take responsibility for their actions. You therefore need to set down rules within the household. The main thing is these rules need to be enforceable. It is pointless making hollow threats that can not be pushed through. Also you need to ensure both you and your spouse agree with the rules, otherwise you may find your child will play one of you off the other.
Monitor activity
Once you know you son or daughter has a problem you are going to have to monitor their activity. Also they need to understand why this is happening – that it is a consequence of their abuse of alcohol. Monitoring will include not only where they are going but who they are hanging out with. Also you need to check for potential hiding places and lock alcohol away in the home.
Encourage past Interests and hobbies
This is a good time to encourage your child to get back to the kind of interests and hobbies before alcohol took over their lives. Investing time and money into facilitating re-engagement can be essential for breaking the habit before it is too late. It may also mean helping your child get back with an old social circle that was centered around these interests.
Underlying Issues
There is the assumption that all teenage drinking problems grow out of good time party drinking spiralling out of control. This is not always the case. There may well be many underlying issues which have lead to your Childs abuse of drink. For instance, they may drink to keep up with their peer group; there may have been a recent change in their life they are struggling to deal with; they may be grieving or they may be being bullied. Whatever the reason for the abuse of alcohol they need to know you are there for them and available to sit and listen. Encourage the teenager to be open and honest about their feelings or any stresses.
Of course, as a parent, you may be part of that stress itself, and a counsellor, or even better an addiction counsellor can be an excellent third party who will enable your child to vent their feelings.
Do not go it alone
Alcohol abuse is not just destructive to the user. It rips apart families, and relationships. So do not feel you have to deal with this problem alone. Consider people in your son or daughters life who they trust such as a sports coach, a favourite teacher or an adult friend. They may find it easier to talk to your child on their level. As mentioned above, a counsellor or trained therapist can be very useful as a start at looking at alcohol treatment. An addiction counsellor could perhaps be found by contacting your local private rehab clinics.
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